This man contacted me through Fb and messenger on the 7th May 2017 after pursuing someone in USA and England. I blocked him twice because i was given a tip that it could be catfish but he asked if he could call me on camera to show me his identity, then he produced a passport and some documents from Malaysia.
He introduced his brother who was there for a while at first to convince me he was a good honest person. When i asked what he did for work he said he worked for Zara, he then took photos and sent them to me of him with other workers it looked so random and I started asking questions because i noticed him and the brother didn’t have name tag.
He caved and said he was actually selling clothes from China that copy Gucci and numerous brands. When things between us became more serious he started asking to come to see me in Australia and how i can help him get a visa but not realizing that he didn’t have his passport because it was being held, he said by the embassy as he had to reapply for a new visa.
The relationship became so stressful for me as he was having so many problems and making me feel guilty that i was happy back home with my friends and family and nothing was changing for him and his situation.
He convinced me that he couldn’t be without me so i started making plans to go to Malaysia. Just as I was about to purchase a flight he said the agency contacted him and that his visa was no longer valid he would have to go back to Nigeria.
Those days waiting for him to go back to Africa were so stressful he kept saying don’t come instead go to Africa.
I expressed concern about going there which infuriated him and caused me so much grief I have lost so much weight it has been 5mths of stress suffering because of his back and forth activities as I became insecure and started questioning everything. I found it so difficult to get away from this man because he had me glued to my phone.